Marissa says the first time her ex-husband beat her she was seven months pregnant with their son. He tried to throw her out of a moving car.
“He told me, 'I will slit your throat.'”
Fearing for their lives, Marissa and her two children have moved seven times in the past seven months and have stayed at three local domestic violence shelters, “I'm just trying to pay my bills, have my own place, and survive.”
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Like most families fleeing domestic violence, presents under the tree are not their first priority, which is why Christmas away from home is especially hard on the youngest victims.
“They're expecting Santa. Children don't understand that they can't have a normal Christmas, so that's difficult. And for a mother to have to make up a story that because we've moved so many times that Santa couldn't find us, well, that's just really sad,” said Maria Outcalt with Safe Nest.
But Safe Nest says through its Adopt a Family program, the community can make sure none of the women and children fleeing domestic violence will be forgotten, “Most of these families are just asking for basic household things and some toys for their children.”
Marissa's two-year-old needs a winter coat and loves musical books and blocks. Her 13-year-old daughter is in desperate need of a bicycle to shorten her 45-minute walk to and from school everyday.
“I'll bet she'll just cry and jump for joy because she would be so happy,” said Marissa.
Regardless of what is or is not under the tree at Christmas, Marissa says her children have already learned an important lesson this year, “Presents are not the most important part of Christmas. We are together and we love each other and the most important thing is that we are alive and safe.”
Safe Nest needs individuals, families and even businesses to come forward and adopt these families fleeing domestic violence this holiday season.








